Anonymous #1 14h

literally. i hear the same story about women with lazy husbands DAILY. leave him or leave us out of it fr

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Anonymous #3 14h

a lot of people shouldn’t have kids. my boomer mom didn’t understand that and had four. 🙂

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Anonymous #1 14h

You know what freaking irritates me they keep on saying “let’s try for another one It’s gonna get better” like the first one wasn’t even good even the second one.

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Anonymous #2 13h

Some ppl got families at 20-25 my guy that’s kinda the demographic of yikyak

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Anonymous #4 13h

OK, but the bar is on the floor and I think it’s OK to acknowledge that the bar is on the floor. I mean, do you ever ask yourself why it’s so common? Why do our boys not learn how to clean? Why is Weaponized incompetence always an excuse? You can try again with a different man but it’s typically the same story except now you’re starting from square one trying to teach a man child.

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Anonymous #5 13h

its sad how common it is. patriarchy is a cancer. i hate to victim blame but unless the OP and the millions of women like her are in the process of leaving.... my empathy is gone. women continue dating these dudes. women continue marrying them. they continue reproducing with them. and then their sons mimic their fathers. and then their daughters get into the same relationships as their mothers. women, never settle. either stay single or only date exceptional men. period

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Anonymous #5 13h

most of us are in college so its definitely unexpected lol. lets not act like this post isnt an outlier

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Anonymous #4 8h

you’re right actually i passed judgement too quickly without thinking that one through my bad

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Anonymous #1 6h

never settle? this ain't the women's fault its the man. What if he leaves him he'll suddenly decide I'll clean the house now! No he'll live not well for a couple months then find a new women to use. This is on the man to pick up sIack. Even if the man does go for a while being single he can just get paper plates or use any other method to not do housework. Acting as if women have complete control over a *man's* behavoir. No they do not. A grown aduIt man should be in complete controI over his behavoir. If all women leave their lazy men the men will suddenly change to not be lazy. As if men in society are even taught to focus on romance as much as the other gender. As if bachelor's aren't seen as not as much of as a problem as unmarried women. Be so for real

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Anonymous #6 5h

u misunderstood my point. its not the womens fault, bc yes, men lie and wait to show their true selves. but im giving advice to avoid situations like this for OP & everyone reading. if women STAY after being mistreated? then they are allowing the manchild cycle to continue. point of leaving incompetent men ISNT to guilt trip them into acting right- u can't change grown ppl. we as women need to do better, stand on business & never settle. we should not hesitate to leave.

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