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Guys like answer bc I gen don’t know what I should do I’m conflicted if I should keep them in my life or set strict boundaries sometimes it feels like they don’t have morals
I’ve been ghosting my sister and mom because I feel like they aren’t good people, especially my sister but I miss them. Should I just ignore how I feel and appreciate that I can still have them in my life or stop seeing/talking to them bc
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Anonymous 13h

Why do you feel that way?

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Anonymous 12h

I think you should start with putting some distance between you and them rather them cutting them off all at once. It could make things easier

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

My mom use to be a really terrible mother, we’re all adults now so I mean I guess all is forgiven, Idk and my sister highkey pimps her gf out for money and treats her pets like garbage she isn’t a good person and it makes me feel bad for spending time with them especially when they’re around my niece and nephews. But at the end of the day they’re still family and I do enjoy spending time with them but it feels wrong to have a place of hatred for them and still laugh and hang ykwim

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Family has no inherent value beyond that which you’re instinctually driven to give it. Your family are just people, if you wouldn’t want anything to do with people like that outside your family, you shouldn’t want anything to do with them in your family.

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