I’m turning 21 years old tomorrow and I’m getting dinner with my boyfriend the day after because he works on my bday and my family is making all these judgements about him and haven’t even met him yet and now they may not let me go to this dinner. Help
That sucks OP. But you could say something like: “he picked up that extra shift solely so he could take me to a nicer restaurant”. I can’t see your family being “mad” at that
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Anonymous10w
Tell them you are an adult and can make decisions independent of them
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Anonymous10w
yea you’re 21 just go to the dinner
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Anonymous10w
ur 21 why are you even questioning 😭
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Anonymous10w
That’s a really stupid reason to make judgments, do what you want and they can deal with it it’s not like they’re dating them
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Anonymous10w
Gurl ur 21 fuck what ur parents say
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Anonymous10w
let them meet him
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Anonymous10w
I’m sure your parents have had similar situations happen to them
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Anonymous#310w
Yeah I hate to agree but 21… girl if you don’t just leave
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Anonymous#110w
You’d be surprised, if they’re trying to tell them at 21 not to go they probably try to control everything