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Family Rants 7w
No! It’s not normal for your 21 year old to break down sobbing and shaking every time there’s an altercation! You make me feel worthless and I see the favoritism. Finally in therapy and they want me to quit. About to be tested for autism…
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Anonymous 7w

… which btw I was screened for once at 18 months old bc I wasn’t talking…once before I had social interaction… that’s not enough to rule out anything. There’s so much more I’m being screened for. I’m not sobbing to be dramatic I literally cannot control it. Stop saying I need to help out, I do help out! You make it sound like everything I do means nothing! I’m a good daughter I’m sorry I’m not just like my brother! I’m sorry that I forget things or literally cannot get motivation to do others.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Took them years to believe me about my depression. It hurts I want out but I don’t have the money to move out and with college it’s harder bc my job is at a vets office near home. I hate it. They think that just saying they love me is enough and they can act normal! I came home, said I was gonna shower, finish an assignment, and then clean. My dad picked apart every item I had out, threw the food I bought outside. I was trying to do my homework! I said I’d do it after! I’m a good daughter

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Ohhh there there. They don’t think / nobody thinks / nobody is saying you’re a bad daughter just bc they had a little family tension or conflict with you. It can be very stressful and make people very uncomfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

It’s not just a little tension…the person who’s supposed to be my dad has been rude/aggressive when he gets drunk and has even screamed and cursed me out and called me nothing. Mom won’t let me talk to her about ANYTHING. It’s all “get over it” but then questions why I didn’t come to her for anything. She told me to not make her feel bad when I said I was depressed. They justify they’re good people for paying for things for me but they don’t treat me like they love me anymore. But the way they

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Treat my brother is SO much better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You have any friends outside of family? Or a good relationship with brother? Don’t want you to feel alone and like you have no support or anyone who is actually kind to you and a true friend (or parent) or emotional support structure to lean on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Fwiw, most people don’t always get along with family or even most of the time have issues. Sometimes it passes for the most part after years or months or weeks or days.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Not really any friends I feel like I can talk to, my brother lives far away and doesn’t always believe me. For a bit I had my healthy exs mom, he said it was ok bc it wasn’t a toxic break up and knew my situation, but he changed his mind recently and said I wasn’t allowed to anymore. Idk if he just didn’t remember saying it was ok or what. He reassured me he doesn’t hate me and wants the best so I know there’s someone out there that cares but he said me and him can’t talk so I can get better

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