Family Rants on Yik Yak | I get the feeling that my girlfriend’s dad is some weird pedo. He walks in on her changing and showering a lot. She gets in trouble if she locks the door, even for a sec. She has told me it’s normal and not a big deal. This is crazy, what do I do or say??

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Family Rants 1w

I get the feeling that my girlfriend’s dad is some weird pedo. He walks in on her changing and showering a lot. She gets in trouble if she locks the door, even for a sec. She has told me it’s normal and not a big deal. This is crazy, what do I do or say??

Anonymous 1w

If you are both minors (even if not), you could try and just talk to an adult you trust. You could say it’s a “friend” or a “conversation you overheard” if you don’t want to go into too many details but it’s good to not let your concern go unsaid, especially if you think she might be in danger

Anonymous 6d

Let her know that it’s not normal. That your parents don’t do that and they give you privacy. Have her other friends tell her that too. Gently. But generally victims are not aware that what’s going on isn’t okay bc the perpetrators are telling them it’s fine and everyone’s dad/mom/etc does this.

Anonymous 1w

It’s not your place to say anything. At most, if both of you are minors, you could call CPS but obviously that would be VERY detrimental to your relationship.

Anonymous

#1 1w

It could also means she gets put into the foster care system… but is that better or worse than being molested by her dad?…

Anonymous

#1 1w

bruh you’re goofy

Anonymous

#2 1w

Thanks. I just don’t know if it’s like something I should be super worried about yk? Like some families are just weird. I just really care about her and freak out over stuff. Ughhhh I love and hate being in a relationship.

Anonymous

#1 1w

I know, I’m probably not going to do anything other than try to have a serious conversation with her to make sure she’s okay and to tell her to stand up for herself