I grew up with this too. Told mine I was being bullied at school at 12 (being called ugly and rumors of surgery for attention, etc) and she told me they might have a point and I should listen to them 🤠 if I mentioned my depression she would be triggered and walk away. She calls me a bitch now because I went LC after moving out. Idk how old u are but just keep focused on the future when you can set the boundaries and enforce them yourself. Therapy really does help!