Family Rants on Yik Yak | did anyone else grow up with strict rules on when you could and couldn’t sit on the couch, a strict dress code and an occasional “exam” to check for puberty (over the age of 12) bc i’m spiraling and know nobody else who dealt w this !!!

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Family Rants 9w

did anyone else grow up with strict rules on when you could and couldn’t sit on the couch, a strict dress code and an occasional “exam” to check for puberty (over the age of 12) bc i’m spiraling and know nobody else who dealt w this !!!

Anonymous 9w

The checking for puberty thing is toeing the line between of mental and possibly even sexual abuse jesus fuck

Anonymous 9w

and like i’m just ranting i know that but i just feel like im going crazy!! i wasn’t allowed to sit on the couch if my dad was home usually bc he wanted me to sit w him (until my sister was born), and i couldn’t even wear like bras until 15??? i couldn’t use deodorant until middle school or shave until high school and i just thought that was normal until i realized it wasn’t !

Anonymous 9w

Honey, that is not normal and I’m sorry you experienced this 💔

Anonymous

OP 9w

And like i knew my parents were at the very least emotionally and sometimes physically abusive but i never really thought about everything else bc it was normalized, none of my siblings questioned it even when they very clearly didn’t have to follow these rules

Anonymous

#1 9w

genuinely has remained one of the most uncomfortable encounters in my life 😀 bc like what

Anonymous

#3 9w

🩵