total_liberation
My mom recently confessed she’s been lying to my face for years about her finances. She’s been out of work for years and living off my dead grandmas inheritance claiming it won’t run out for a long time. Meanwhile I’ve been paranoid for years (cont below)I’ve been paranoid for years that it would run out if she didn’t get a job eventually and she went as far as to gaslight me in therapy alongside our therapist to tell me not to ever worry because it wasn’t my business and she would NEVER let us run out or let me find out by surprise that we were out in a way that would make me miss out on opportunities or affect my ability to survive
Well surprise surprise she confessed to lying after I needed her to sign as a guarantor on my first lease and she admitted she didn’t have the funds to show to be my guarantor. So now I’m stuck with no credit history at all and who tf knows what our future looks like while she’s still fucking unemployed