exactly. but im the youngest and my siblings are all older and out of the house and have their own lives so its different. i was just supposed to know and assume without them saying "oh btw were doing this TODAY" like nonchalant. they just vaguely said "oh were gonna have ur brother over for dinner" and didnt specify the day.
and also, its a whole fucking ordeal, bc we also have to pick up my grandma and literally push her in her wheelchair in nearly 100° fucking heat uphill to our house. her house shes in is like 0.5 miles from where my parents live, but like still. i wouldnt be saying anything if we didnt have to do this shit every single week. but we do.