Family Rants on Yik Yak | ive been working on confronting my mom bc i was raised w/ emotional neglect and i learned to fawn over everything n i asked my mom “every time i bring something up to you, is it gonna be me scolding u” and she said “YES!“ holy fuck it’s really this bad???

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Family Rants 13w

ive been working on confronting my mom bc i was raised w/ emotional neglect and i learned to fawn over everything n i asked my mom “every time i bring something up to you, is it gonna be me scolding u” and she said “YES!“ holy fuck it’s really this bad???

Anonymous 13w

that’s what emotionally avoidant people do in set a boundary with my ex yesterday because she gave me a panic attack and she immediately blocked me 🤭🤭🤭

Anonymous 13w

(she was saying me putting down a barrier was me scolding her)

Anonymous

#1 13w

i am unlearning my emotional avoidance i got from both my parents and their church (pastor’s kid here, hi) and i realize just how fucking pissed off it makes me that my parents just rolled over under the weight of their own shit and were a unique sort of neglectful that looked pretty deep enough to give me the shit soldiers have and the more i unlearn and see how bad they are its like ow bc i love them. BUT I HATE THEM

Anonymous

OP 13w

i saw a pic of me as a little 4 y/o yesterday and couldnt help but break down a bit bc i cant imagine treating her how they treated me