every time i see my grandpa he comments on my weight gain/loss. "you look so much better, have you lost weight?" or "oh wow you're really filling out beautifully". ik he trying to compliment me but as someone in ED recovery its rly fucking w my head
Ugh feel for you, too many people don’t realize how triggering making comments on someone’s body can be, even when they’re supposed to be positive
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My mom will comment on how skinny as I am as a compliment but it’s not a compliment to me at all 🥴
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Anonymous15w
My gramma is like this, but my weight issues are for other health reasons plus some disordered eating. Like I know she means well and isn’t aware of all my issues, but it still stings a little to hear