I’m not black but I have curly hair and there is no way anybody is “running their fingers” through it without a ton of effort and snagging. I imagine if your character has natural hair with any curl pattern above a type 2 that will be off the table for them as well.

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Unfortunately running hands thru hair is not an option 😔 but depending on the style it could be just playing with or twirling locs or braids

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Maybe a headrub for any hairstyle or pushing her hair out of her face for braids or locs.

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