
I felt that those sex scenes were way more personal and plot important than any straight sex scenes I’ve seen. They also capitalized on consent and tenderness which again I don’t see in too many sex scenes. I’m not sure why pandering to the female gaze is an issue anyways…. Straight men have a long history with lesbian porn and the way they handled it in the show was quite respectful (coming from a queer myself)
I’m glad it’s taken the time to do that! I haven’t seen the show but I was saying that just because some media is made by queer people doesn’t mean it doesn’t pander to audiences who need to romanticize queer people to respect them. Genuinely though, I’m glad that there are things in the show that display more care to those important topics.
There are definitely a lot of queer relationships that are being pandered to straight audiences to make this acceptable. I genuinely don’t believe this is one of those shows. I think it is a byproduct of how good the show is that so many people are obsessed with it. I would encourage you to watch it and pay very close attention to it because it is not a show you can watch while scrolling otherwise you miss so much of what it is. It’s the first time I’ve ever seen queer joy like this on screen.
No, and that’s a false equivalency. I am saying that there is queer representation up and down in the creation of the show you’re comparing a singular actor to the original author of the source material and the director of the entire project. Kurt was at best stereotypical and at worst caricature.
A lot of hockey romances tend to be based on real life players, and it being a romance with a good boy Canadian/bad boy Russian set in 2008 seems to be a reference to Crosby and Ovechkin, especially with how they were set up as rivals at the time… I haven’t read the book myself, but I also heard there are references to irl events that allude to them as well. There’s also other characters that seem to obviously be irl NHL players for people that follow the NHL