Yeah polyamory is not the solve for every fanfic ship war but if people could have basic communication skill then maybe fandoms wouldn’t demonize usually women “getting in the way” of mlm ships 😭 the reason I can’t do slowburns is because it’s so often 120K words of miscommunication and jealousy that could be solved with one conversation but instead they dance around it until they get together in the last 100 words.