Wondering the same cuz I’m older and have people telling me to lose weight to be locked and guys don’t fw me either… shockingly I didn’t get fat shamed on apps but they didn’t work for me cuz the guys were overly sexual

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i haven't been fat shamed on the apps! i haven't been super successful either (cuz men are generally awful) but usually they just don't match with you if they're not attracted to fat girls , so I wouldn't worry too much

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Yeah sadly I think I’ll have to lose weight in order to be taken seriously but im pretty sure there are some men who would like us the way we are no matter the size, i just think theres not many of them :/

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