Anonymous #2 11w

Me too! Now I get downvoted into oblivion or get countless DMs asking my gender so fit men can fetishize me

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Anonymous OP 11w

Like I enjoyed being a heavier dude and seeing all the friendly people here just be so chill with each other. Now I barely use this chat bc it’s lost all its fun

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Anonymous #2 11w

And also the one good gc (“Plus Size!” was the name) died and used to be so lively

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah that one was decent as well. I knew from the start that Fat Appreciation would just be fetishized so I was never on that

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Anonymous OP 11w

Yeahhh it’s kinda sad seeing how downhill all the fat inclusive spaces went

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Anonymous #2 11w

Howdy, I wonder if something like a Snapchat group may be nice. Something where people had to be screened beforehand.

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Anonymous #3 11w

I highly doubt that would work

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Anonymous #2 11w

How come?

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Anonymous #3 11w

Some way or another it’ll devolve into chaos

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Anonymous #3 11w

It’s a good idea in thought, but it wouldn’t play out well. How would people get screened? How would you know what someone’s real intentions are. How do you stop fetishizers from pushing themselves in? Also, I know a number of fat folk who use skinny bitmojis 😭

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Anonymous OP 11w

Exactly. That and someone can leak the chat and hella people will join randomly and clog it up

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Anonymous #2 11w

I’m late, but what if we did a sort of community guideline agreement/contract that interested parties would need to read through and agree with before being given the link. And then have a couple of moderators who are keeping track of activities

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