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Fat Community 13h
just found the guy ive been talking to’s ex & nothing as made me feel worse shes literally so skinny, fit and beautiful. here i am fat w a shit ton of rolls and stretch marks. how can i be w him knowing that’s his ex and she’s gorg and im not
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Anonymous 13h

i’d like to note that i do not think people who are fat, heavier, or overweight are ugly… i think that specifically i am. that being said how do you stop feeling like that/this and actually start loving and valuing yourself? i am struggling so hard with it rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

It’s hard and I’m still struggling but you have to find irl or online people with bodies similar to yours, and even if you don’t necessarily find them attractive just make sure you see a lot of it and get used to it. Also like, ik it’s awkward cause it’s not encouraged for women outside of sexual contexts, but when you’re by yourself get used to not being fully clothed like. I’ll take my shirt off when it’s just me doing chores around the house.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

The point of all this is that you have to spend time with your body to be more comfortable with it.

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