any other fat women feel horribly guilty for having a type when we’re constantly being told, overtly or not, that we’re lucky to even catch 1 date (not that this sentiment matters, ppl actually genuinely do like us, but it still fucks w/ you)
I don’t even have much of a type but i still feel guilty for the minimal preferences i have 😭 i feel like if i don’t give up my tastes i will never develop a dating phase let alone relationship with anyone
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Anonymous10w
its not just u bby don’t worry 😔
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Anonymous10w
testify
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Anonymous10w
Is this just a universal thing for all fat people? Like I’m a fat dude and I’m convinced that if I ever got to catch even 1 proper date I’d be lucky
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Anonymousnanners10w
yeah the attitude is similar because i’m like 235 and at my heaviest i was 300+ and the way people treated my love life when i was way overweight was super similar
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Anonymous#310w
Like I’m not huge or nothing (5’5 and 205-215) but yeah it’s rough when people make judgments about how your love life should go because you look a certain way
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Anonymousnanners10w
oops i have to make sure you’re not a mean girl bestie i was morbidly obese once and the women i was with traumatized me more than being fat 🤓
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Anonymous#310w
Honest to god certain people who make you feel like shit hurt more than anything