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I like one of my friends, she’s still a new friend, but she has great qualities and is pretty and sweet. I’m just not sure she feels and don’t want to mess up the friendship😕
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Anonymous 6w

you'll mess it up anyways eventually brodie just get it out of the way now and see if she feels the same. otherwise you're just torturing yourself.

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Anonymous 6w

There’s ways to be both honest and respectful abt ur feelings in a way that doesnt mess up the friendship. Idk why everyone is acting like it’s all or nothing.

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Anonymous 6w

Me too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Tell me you've never told a woman how you feel about her without telling me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

im a woman 😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

oh yeah ok that makes sense you think people still wanna be friends after they reject you because everyone you've rejected still wanted you lol. men don't have that luxury.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Ive also asked out people before who have said no. There’s ways to do it without being so intense. Maybe you should try them before assuming there is no other way? I guarantee you if women stop being your friend because you asked them out there were other factors that led to that decision. Maybe the way you ask them out or even your attitude in general. There’s nothing wrong with dropping a hint or two to see if theyd be into it and if not then you carry on?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

and honestly you seem so irritated that I could have another experience than you. It’s possible to ask someone out, they say no, and you just move on. If you can’t stay friends with that person then that’s on you for being sensitive about the rejection. Yea you can be hurt, but to unfriend a good friend bc of that is extreme. Just take it on the chin, why be immature?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

Not even my experiences Ive been with my high school sweetheart since my sophomore year so I've never really faced rejection. I'm just speaking in what I see with all my friends, I've never had a friend make a move (hint/straight up/otherwise, basically any way) where the girl doesn't just ghost them pretty much immediately. As far as I've ever seen with other people she either likes ya back or the friendship is shot.

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