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Im so scared to communicate my insecurities? My gf broke up with me for it. And I hate myself bc I want to. I tried to talk but I didn’t want to bother her with stupid stuff. I didn’t want to put more strain on her. I hate myself bc I just can’t
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Anonymous 3w

Sharing your feelings is never a burden, not for the right people. Whoever made you feel that way is the problem, not you. Work on starting sentences with “I feel” i.e. “I feel like you’re being distant” “I feel like you’re ignoring me” or even “when you do [blank] it makes me feel [blank]” this allows you to express how you feel while leaving room for the other party to explain their side. Hope that helps you at all🫶

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Anonymous 3w

You can you just have to want to change your thoughts

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

So true

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