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My first friend at college has been distant and sneaky since she became friends with another girl. EX:I brought up going to the beach this summer together and she basically told me she was too busy but she just posted pics with her new friend AT THE BEACH
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Anonymous 13w

as a highschool senior- i’m telling you, you’re going to grow out of people and they will grow out of you. find better friends, despite how hurtful it must be knowing your first friend is turning weird.

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Anonymous 13w

And I wouldn’t have a problem with new girl if my friend would just be honest with me. If she doesn’t want to be friends with me anymore that’s fine I just want her to be happy and I love her so much.

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Anonymous 13w

You’re giving her too much grace and power over you imo, I get missing your friend but don’t excuse her bad behavior toward you

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Anonymous 13w

You’re a lot nicer than me at this point I’d be telling them to go f themselves lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i feel for you.. i’m sure when i become a freshman i’ll have my days too. but honestly if u love her you’ll learn to let her go and love her from afar. college is huge- you’ll meet and make new friends if you really desire too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Yeah. It just hurts to watch her be so ok with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i’m sure it does. but like i said- coming from a senior in highschool, u gotta learn to say fuck it- and ball.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I guess. I asked her how she was doing earlier and I got left on read.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

yeah, all signs u should move on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I have a feeling that I should stick it out for a little longer tho. I have a lot of faith in her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

welp i said what ive said. who knows, maybe she’ll begin to value your friendship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Maybe. I really don’t wanna lose her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

She’s been my ride or die through so much and I’ve done the same for her. She’ll go MIA every once in awhile but this is just weird and the fact that she’s keeping things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

You’re right

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