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Hi guys. I’m struggling in my relationship right now and I have no idea how to make it better. Every year around the holidays my boyfriend absolutely refuses to come to my family gatherings and has never invited me to his. I feel so unwanted and alone.
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Anonymous 1w

Has he ever said why? Also how long have y’all been together if you don’t mind me asking

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Anonymous 1w

Sound like you should break up with him. My ex boyfriend was the same and he ended up cheating on me and was a douche. Not trying to scare you or anything but just dump his ass is my opinion

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Anonymous 1w

either he’s an asshole (likely) or he has trust issues and difficulty opening up (very not likely)

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t like that’s. Anyone can tell you care a lot about it, so that fact that he hasn’t even given e reason is pretty shady. Have you met his family otherwise?

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Anonymous 1w

Please leave him! Clearly he’s hiding something or he’s feeling some way. Regardless if he wanted too he would, so don’t settle for less🙏🙏

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Anonymous 1w

Sounds like my relationship, but I’m a guy

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Anonymous 1w

How are you

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Anonymous 1w

Where are you from

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Anonymous 1w

Hello

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Hello

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Hello

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_night_w_stars27 1w

Is this op shit hole of a boyfriend who desires to khs

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Are you on signal or Zangi

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Hello

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

We’ve been together for three years this coming march. He says it’s because he doesn’t like my family. I’m not sure why, he never gives a real concrete reason. I’ve seen other people say that maybe he doesn’t like to open up which no, he doesn’t. He’s had an awful childhood but I’d figure having a hard time growing up, having another family to go to would be refreshing. I’m at a loss.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

maybe his difficult childhood is why he doesn’t want u over and his and maybe he doesn’t wanna go to urs bc of his trust issues and being scared to open up to people that could hurt him 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I could totally see that. It’s just hard understanding it all because I’m not him. I’m trying everyday to help him heal there are just rough patches. I want so badly for him to like my family or trust them enough to be around them. Maybe it’ll just take a little longer. Thank you for talking to me. (Ur def my fav)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

I’m sorry bro, I hope it gets better.

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