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Friend Advice 8w
I lost a friend and I’m so upset with myself :(
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Anonymous 8w

That is so hard, I hope you know you are still loved and deserving of it!

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Anonymous 6w

I’m in a similar situation, it’s easy to beat yourself up over things but just know that everything happens for a reason and that losing friends happens to everyone. Life is a learning experience and no one is perfect, reflect, take care of yourself, and use it as a chance to grow

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Anonymous 5w

Have you reached out to apologize if it was your fault. Have you reached out at all. You haven’t lost them until you have tried to reach out to talk to them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

There was a situation they were stressed about and needed a break from and I apologized for it, but they hadn’t responded and unfollowed me on socials. I haven’t said anything since then, but I’m not sure if there’s anything I can do to fix things :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You don’t have to fix things, but just even reaching out and saying “hey I hope you are doing okay, your on my mind today, no need to respond if you don’t feel like it”. It shows that you still care but gives them the opportunity to reach out if they want to. It also give you the chance to reach out to them

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