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the realizing that my friend only txts me when they want something is… a lot😶‍🌫️ i texted them several times over the past month with no response and the other day they started blowing my phone up & forced a convo just to ask for my netflix login
146 upvotes, 18 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Friend Advice. "the realizing that my friend only txts me when they want something is… a lot😶‍🌫️ i texted them several times over the past month with no response and the other day they started blowing my phone up & forced a convo just to ask for my netflix login"
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Anonymous 9w

Fake friend behavior

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Anonymous 9w

Ignore them. While you’re at it, ignore any hope that they might change, if you have it. I had a similar friendship and that hope kept me coming back for far longer than I should’ve

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Anonymous 9w

Good catch, bump them to the curb

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Anonymous 9w

that's not your friend lol

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Anonymous 8w

Once had a “friend” like this. She wanted me to lie and sign up to fill a room selection spot so she and her friends could have the housing she wanted for the next year even though she knew I was going abroad. Called me and left a message saying it was an “emergency” so naturally I call her back in a panic ready to run over and make sure she’s okay. Nope. She just wanted to use me for room selection ☠️

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Anonymous 9w

Txt mentioned😛

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

yeah i’m done now / when they were blowing my phone up i initially told myself i was done w/ them but then they started a convo & i figured everything was cool again, then they asked for my login & it clicked that the only reason they were so engaged & responding immediately was bc they wanted something, which they’ve done before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

i’m thinking about changing my password & loging them out of my account ngl lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Dude you must do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Do it do it do it. If they ask say oops, my mom/sibling/ex/coworker/other friend was messing up my suggestions, sorry 😞 and don’t offer the login again. Or if you want don’t say anything. Tell them they suck. Tell them you no longer have an account. All that jazz

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I think they should just do it and not talk to them again, they don’t owe that person an explanation for them mooching off their account lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Better idea, I always forget you can just Not sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Please do it… this didn’t deserve to get any of those privileges in the first place.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

No same especially in the moment I overthink and feel bad even when they’ve done me so wrong lol 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

i just changed my password & logged them out/ it just sucks bc now i realize i was way more of a friend to them than they were to me/ i’ll nvr forget there was one time i got arrested (long story), spent 5 hrs in a holding cell, when i got out i called him for a ride to my car, he said no bc he’s getting dressed to meet his friends @ the bar, so i called my other friend. once i got to my car the original guy called me back and asked me for a ride to the bar… my dumbass still gave him a ride🫥

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I’ve been there before except the arrested part lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

it was so stupid😭/ i was pulling an all nighter studying & doing projects during midterms then i drove home @ 7am, was v. tired & hit a 2ft pole, didn’t know what to do so i asked a few ppl & they said it’s fine & the uni. would reach out to me to pay for damages or w/e so i left/ few hrs later police call & ask me to come give a statement, i show up & they said they had a warrant to arrest me for “hit & run”

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