It just blew up from there for no reason. The thing is we went through a lot worse shit than this. And I don’t know what his deal is with my fiancé, but it’s like he doesn’t wanna be around her and it’s just me and her and him but for the longest time when I wasn’t married before I had a girlfriend I was there for years and it was never a big dealand he’s coming over to my house when I was married prior and it wasn’t a big deal
And he was making out like I wasn’t taking care of my grandmother on Fridays like I was just lying to him or something which I wasn’t. I don’t even told him that we could hang out with a different day throughout the week and he didn’t make an effort to do it. I don’t even try to myself. They just blew it off.
So we went to this Halloween party and the next day pictures were put on Facebook that we were at this party. Well, I tried talking to him Monday about football and some other stuff and he never replied and I couldn’t get a hold of him for a long time, and then finally, he replied to meand he was pissed at me
And I told him that I couldn’t do Fridays anymore or for a while anyways and that I can do a different day through the week just not Fridays. After I told him that I never got brought back up well one weekend I believe it was Saturday. I had a Halloween party I was going to and me and my fiancé went and some other people from work and I would’ve invited him, but he’s not too keen on other people he don’t know so I didn’t think about it.
I think some can, sadly. Like the argument that I had with an old buddy where he told me that he didn’t support gay rights (I’m bi). Or another argument after he told me that he was cheating on his girlfriend. But yeah, I’m sad to report that one argument can absolutely end a friendship and also not be petty. 😭
There was one time when I was apologizing and they wouldn’t accept it but it was because they didn’t think I had done anything wrong. And there was another time when this girl was very defensive of her bf and thought bc her boyfriend didn’t like my twin that she could hate on my twin and I told her that I didn’t like him for that reason and then it escalated? The last reference wasn’t anything silly.
There was also an argument where one friend was sorta invading my area and making another one of my friends uncomfortable and when I tried to say something they stopped talking to me and started cussing at me when I was in earshot just so I could here. And then other outsiders came in and started attacking me for not being there when she turned away