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Crazy how a friendship for 14 years can just end a stupid argument.. and now it feels like I don’t have any at all
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Anonymous 1w

It just blew up from there for no reason. The thing is we went through a lot worse shit than this. And I don’t know what his deal is with my fiancé, but it’s like he doesn’t wanna be around her and it’s just me and her and him but for the longest time when I wasn’t married before I had a girlfriend I was there for years and it was never a big dealand he’s coming over to my house when I was married prior and it wasn’t a big deal

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Anonymous 1w

Sometimes even if the argument seems silly it could also be a sign that the friendship was drifting anyway, and that “silly” argument was just the straw that broke the camel’s back.

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Anonymous 1w

And he was making out like I wasn’t taking care of my grandmother on Fridays like I was just lying to him or something which I wasn’t. I don’t even told him that we could hang out with a different day throughout the week and he didn’t make an effort to do it. I don’t even try to myself. They just blew it off.

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Anonymous 1w

The whole situation just didn’t make any since to me

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Anonymous 1w

I think I’d off myself

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Anonymous 1w

Ngl it’s a lot to type and I tried to type it all out and it wouldn’t let me 🤨.

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Anonymous 1w

So we went to this Halloween party and the next day pictures were put on Facebook that we were at this party. Well, I tried talking to him Monday about football and some other stuff and he never replied and I couldn’t get a hold of him for a long time, and then finally, he replied to meand he was pissed at me

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Anonymous 1w

And I could understand why he was pissed because I didn’t do anything wrong or at least I didn’t think anyways? But he made it sound like I didn’t want to hang out with him anymore because I went to that party that Saturday and then tell him anything about it

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Anonymous 1w

It is what it is I guess just kind of sucks. You know being a friend with someone that long and that it ended over something stupid

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Anonymous 1w

The argument couldn’t have been that serious to just let everything go you guys should definitely work it out

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Anonymous 1w

I tried to to work out too, but he just wasn’t haven’t it I guess 🤷🏻‍♂️ I have talked to to since last December, won’t respond to any of my messages

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Anonymous 1w

Idk if those make sense

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Anonymous 1w

And I told him that I couldn’t do Fridays anymore or for a while anyways and that I can do a different day through the week just not Fridays. After I told him that I never got brought back up well one weekend I believe it was Saturday. I had a Halloween party I was going to and me and my fiancé went and some other people from work and I would’ve invited him, but he’s not too keen on other people he don’t know so I didn’t think about it.

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Anonymous 1w

I tried to talk to to him about it but no response so it is what it is I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I think some can, sadly. Like the argument that I had with an old buddy where he told me that he didn’t support gay rights (I’m bi). Or another argument after he told me that he was cheating on his girlfriend. But yeah, I’m sad to report that one argument can absolutely end a friendship and also not be petty. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

May I ask what was the argument?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

There was one time when I was apologizing and they wouldn’t accept it but it was because they didn’t think I had done anything wrong. And there was another time when this girl was very defensive of her bf and thought bc her boyfriend didn’t like my twin that she could hate on my twin and I told her that I didn’t like him for that reason and then it escalated? The last reference wasn’t anything silly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

There was also an argument where one friend was sorta invading my area and making another one of my friends uncomfortable and when I tried to say something they stopped talking to me and started cussing at me when I was in earshot just so I could here. And then other outsiders came in and started attacking me for not being there when she turned away

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

So me and my friend used to go out for drinks every Friday and my grandmother got sick so I had to start taking care of her on Fridays because my dad and uncle was working and they were Dublin on Fridays and I told him I would watch her why they doubled and I told him about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And your friend was mad that you were taking care of a sick relative?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I— that’s so weird that they got mad over that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m so sorry that happened. It’s honestly weird that they got mad over that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Maybe I’m in the wrong ??? Idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You definitely aren’t in the wrong. If he couldn’t give you a little bit a leeway around caring for a relative that’s a big dick move. And if he’s not willing to acknowledge and discuss issues with you that’s also a red flag. I wouldn’t try and pursue this friendship anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I cut all ties. I hate that it ended that way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s prob better for you to regret cutting ties than regret not cutting ties and getting stuck in a terrible situation. Take some time, talk to some new people and while it may still hurt to look back on eventually things won’t feel so sucky. 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Thanks for the positivity! I’m trying to make new friends

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