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Yo so does anyone here wanna teach me what friends are and how to make them? No seriously, I’m 19 and have no idea what friends are and how to make them, deadass. I have no social skills and have major social anxiety. I’m a guy btw before you ask
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Anonymous 16w

Honestly its mostly a numbers game. Most of the time, you will fail. But the few times you succeed are worth it. Just be passionate about what you like, be compassionate and kind, dont be an ass, general good person rules. Try not to take things personally, give other people room to make mistakes, and dont cling onto or try to control people. Put yourself in social situations and find ways to be part of them. Eventually youll meet people. But i wont lie to you, the process is very long

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Anonymous 15w

become a gym bro. make yourself super strong and the other gym bros will come. most gym broa are nerds anyway. plus you will be more attractive to women if you are strong.

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Anonymous 15w

You are 100% screwed. Get ready for the next years of your life all by your self. You’ll only have yourself to blame

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Like attracts like, so try to be like the people youd like to know. And the unfortunate truth is that your personality SHOULD change for the better as you age. Experience and wisdom should alter how you act and present yourself. Changing your personality to align with new information is a good thing; no one is perfect

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Also, know your worth and dont demean yourself for others. If you truly cant manage to fit in and make friends somewhere, that place may just not be for you. Ive lived in multiple cities and some are bad fits where ive met no one and others were awesome and i met tons of people. Not everyones meant to live everywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Why are you talking to yourself? Weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

rude! this was not asked for, I would gladly be friends with op

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