simply just don’t go. true friends won’t push you or try to give you fomo. find your own scene

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i’m pretty sure you’d be able to find friends who equally don’t feel comfortable frats, etc. there’s always people who primarily go out to bars and parties that don’t involve frats

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lol I’m a freshman and I feel the same way. Plus people on my campus say that some of the frats are pretty icky people (racist, rap*ists, etc.) my mom tells me you’re going to go to a frat party, but like- I don’t want to either tbh. I’ll go to parties- but I don’t wanna risk getting rapped up in that mess. At least until I know for myself that I can handle it.

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