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How tf do I make friends at college?! I only have 2 real friends here and I’ve been so depressed that I be riding the buses around campus and befriending the bus drivers.
295 upvotes, 14 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Friend Advice. "How tf do I make friends at college?! I only have 2 real friends here and I’ve been so depressed that I be riding the buses around campus and befriending the bus drivers."
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Anonymous 3w

social anxiety is real!!! try going for a walk and start by smiling at random people that pass you, work your way up to saying hi and starting a conversation! i always do a compliment and then ask where they got an article of clothing! if you see them again maybe ask if they want to hang out. making new friends is scary and rejection is hard but it could lead to new long lasting friendships!

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Anonymous 3w

Real as fuck, the bus drivers sometimes recognize / know me more than my professors

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Anonymous 3w

DM me cause I’m lonely as well 🥹

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Anonymous 3w

sit next to randos in class that you’d think you’d like and just make conversation then ask for their socials if it’s a good convo

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Anonymous 3w

I’m silent and look mean but I’m on campus all day bro… if you get the chance try to make that friend, most people need more interaction you’re not a burden

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Anonymous 3w

just remember that everyone is trying to find their people! doing little things like introducing yourself or saying hi when people walk by makes a huge difference! i know it sucks rn but most people are pretty friendly since they’re trying to find their people too!

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Anonymous 3w

I would love to be friends with you!

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Anonymous 3w

lowkey i didn’t have a good set of friends till i found a good job waitress g with people my age that went to school with me

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Anonymous 2w

I would love to be friends with youuu omg

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Anonymous 2w

you’re valid for struggling to make friends (I sympathize with you)— social anxiety and depression suck ass :( something that’s helped me make friends is talking to people in classes, complimenting people on campus otw to classes, and doing events around my college town that aren’t necessarily college-specific (maybe a game night, trivia night- I went to this adult coloring night thing). It can be scary, AND you got this!! Best of luck friend 🫡❣️

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Anonymous 3w

Honestly same 😪hml

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Anonymous 3w

Real

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2w

PLZZZZ!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 2w

YAYYY HMUUU

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