Friend Advice on Yik Yak | How do you support someone who is boy crazy? I understand yearning for a relationship but I feel like if your only form of communication with them is on Snapchat maybe they don’t want to settle down. It’s heartbreaking watching them cry every weekend.

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Friend Advice 3w

How do you support someone who is boy crazy? I understand yearning for a relationship but I feel like if your only form of communication with them is on Snapchat maybe they don’t want to settle down. It’s heartbreaking watching them cry every weekend.

Anonymous 3w

You run.

Anonymous 3w

i had a friend like that. eventually it wasn’t even heartbreaking anymore, it was expected. not long after it stopped being heartbreaking, i told her i wanted to talk about it and explained the very obvious truth that if you don’t change the cycle today, it will only repeat tomorrow. except in many more words and far less kindly. i wasn’t yelling at her or mad at her, it was tough love. she deleted snap and met a guy at the library about a month later. they’ve been together for over 3 years now.

Anonymous

#2 3w

sometimes all someone needs is to hear the hard truth from someone they respect.

Anonymous

#2 2w

Scared she might cut me off again but maybe that’s my sign to pick myself off the floor and stand up.

Anonymous

OP 2w

i’m glad you said it, because it would’ve felt mean coming from me. sometimes people are not deserving of an effort they refuse to reciprocate. i’m glad you had that thought, though. it’s a very difficult thing to come to terms with sometimes.