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I don’t know why I can’t make friends and keep them. I’m honest and talk about what is upsetting me and I let them do the same but for some reason I always end up in a fight and left alone
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Anonymous 17w

Sounds like me and you are very similar, recently lost a whole friend group over a misunderstanding. But you know what that showed me? They weren’t real friends. Real friends will try to fix and save a relationship if they really care about it. While I don’t who you are as a person, I’ll give you some general advice. Most friends don’t last, they’ll give only way they do is if your a people pleaser and at that point your just headed towards losing everyone, it’s not worth it.

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Anonymous 17w

Similar thing happened to me and my bf so ur not alone

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Anonymous replying to -> the_chaos_king 17w

It’ll take time, lots of trial and error, but you’ll find people who will see you as worth the struggle, worth the growth, and it will grow into a beautiful friendship. That goes both ways. True friendship takes a lot of work, vulnerability, and struggle. But you will find your people OP, find those with similar beliefs and passions is a pretty good tip despite seeming obvious. You got this OP, best of luck!

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