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Friend Advice 14w
sorry it’s long but aita?🧍🏾‍♂️
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3 upvotes, 6 comments. Yik Yak poll by Anonymous in Friend Advice. "sorry it’s long but aita?🧍🏾‍♂️"
yes, ur the asshole
no, not the asshole
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Anonymous 14w

You gotta set boundaries and not be afraid to say no. The day you learn to say no and place your needs as a priority you will be so happy. And you can go about it still without being an asshole

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Anonymous 14w

You seem like a sweet person, yes I know it’s tough to set boundaries but it’s necessary to build mutual respect.

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Anonymous 14w

Your friend is a leech and shes trying to take advantage of your friendship to do that. Tell her about it and if she doesnt compromise to split the bills on food or buy you something in return for the errands then you dont need go waste time with her.

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Anonymous 13w

Cash, grass, or ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

i try sometimes, i just feel bad bc i don’t mind giving rides every once in a while but i didn’t realize it’d become an everyday thing, now what she does is she’ll txt me around 3-4 asking abt something random & pretending to care (currently looking for a new job so she’ll ask abt that) then she’ll immediately hit me with: “Food later?👀”)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

idky she doesn’t take an uber or ask someone else, bc it’s now an everyday occurrence / plus we literally have a shuttle bus for our university that takes us to & from publix so idk what the issue is💀

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