Friend Advice on Yik Yak | Lowkey crying rn bc my friends all hang out without me bc I live off campus. When I mentioned that it bothered me, they said “well, just come over.” What??? Why not just invite me when you’re doing something instead of me guessing at when you’re free?

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Friend Advice 10w

Lowkey crying rn bc my friends all hang out without me bc I live off campus. When I mentioned that it bothered me, they said “well, just come over.” What??? Why not just invite me when you’re doing something instead of me guessing at when you’re free?

Anonymous 10w

I don’t even live far, it’s like a ten minute walk to their dorm. Some people on campus’ dorms are farther than that

Anonymous 10w

No it’s acc not normal lol not normalising this

Anonymous 10w

do u guys have a groupchat? or each others locations to where u could just see if they’re hanging and go to them?

Anonymous 10w

Dude I thought it was just me I’m in the same predicament :(

Anonymous

#1 10w

We do have a group chat, I do text them but they’re always busy. Which is why I’m so confused on why they think I can just “drop by” also like, how are you guys getting so many group activities in when you’re always busy????

Anonymous

OP 10w

Also they don’t always answer, especially if they’re busy.

Anonymous

OP 10w

It’s not the end of the world, it just really gets to me sometimes and I can’t help but feel a bit left out/ lonely.

Anonymous

#3 10w

That sucks, I’m sorry dude :(

Anonymous

#2 10w

Not Normalizing which part

Anonymous

OP 10w

Thank you I did finally get invited to go to their dorm tomorrow though so that’s good news!! I guess it’s also for me I don’t want to bother/annoy them and constantly text and ask what they’re doing/if I can come over. But also if I don’t text them first most of the time we don’t hang out.😔but it’s literally just because I don’t live on campus if I did I would see them all the time