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Friend Advice 16h
I’m so happy, I left my friend of 5 years because of how much of a manipulative person and narcissist he was… never taking accountability and to top off with him cheating 24/7 so as a brother, had to step away
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Anonymous 5h

I’m going through the same thing with someone I saw as a sister. So manipulative and I feel betrayed, but I love her down to earth. It makes me sad to not allow her access or speak to her. How did you get yourself to step away and continue life??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5h

I had to LITERALLY bitch myself out and be blunt. I reminded myself that the good times doesn’t erase the bad behavior that continues to this day. I told myself to just be fucking “selfish” because I have to choose me because no one else will… and like that I just did it, blocked him on everything and my God does it feel amazing…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5h

Best way to do it , is to be angry. not at them but for yourself ( like pissed self advocacy.) Leave in silence let them guess and sit in the piss soaked bed they make for themselves. Thats how you strip power from a manipulator… you end the game without their permission and leave them high a dry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5h

And it’s ok to love and miss them, but, you’ve got a life for you too and more importantly you’ve got your own story to tell and you deserve to be FUCNING heard regardless of who listens and sticks around.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5h

🧡🧡🧡 it isn’t easy, but it’s one hell of a start to a new beautiful chapter

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