Anonymous #1 1w

I thought the same thing until recently. If they want to be a dick, okay cool. Don’t complain when I run you over like a speed bump then. When I needed her the most, she disappeared like she was the master of all the elements. 🙄

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Anonymous #5 1w

Whomp whomp

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Anonymous roseberry_wind_face81 1w

On ?

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Anonymous #5 1w

but if u don’t tell me what’s hurting you how am i supposed to know?

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Anonymous OP 1w

But if I do tell you and you just leave out of the blue - how is that my fault ?

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Like ?

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Anonymous purple_rabbit_face52 1w

no my point is if something bothers u and u don’t communicate that it bothers u do not get mad at me for doing it, i completely understand that if someone doesn’t respect that then yes leave

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Anonymous OP 1w

consideration, introspection, and accountability. there is absolutely no way u have 0 ideas on what u did to push that person away if theyre dropping u like that. u have to recall moments or convos or actions and review from a diff perspective. maybe it wasn’t even u—maybe theyre going thru something bigger. u can always ask. or maybe im just an over-thinker idk. but id rather be a considerate over-thinker than flow thru life oblivious as to how my words and action affect others.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Ain’t reading all that

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Anonymous #5 1w

no we’ve def have conversations and i feel like i’ve been conscious of those things but then they randomly stopped after i had made all the changes so my point is what was the reason after i made the change

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Anonymous OP 1w

Why don’t you ask them? Maybe you didn’t and they’re tired of it

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Anonymous #2 1w

trust i have

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Anonymous purple_rabbit_face52 1w

You clearly have issues. I don’t blame her for leaving.

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Anonymous #2 1w

i feel like the backup friend gifs

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Anonymous purple_rabbit_face52 1w

cute. It’s not hard to see why your friend left you when you “needed her the most”…id do the same, ur unbearable lol. sounds as if you didn’t deserve her and good for her for dropping you.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I guess it all depends on the context of the changes that you were requested to make. I’m gonna compare this to my last relationship with my ex, I was asking him to do basic things like see me at least once a week and then he DID begrudgingly see me once a week and I was like why am I settling for this…So I just decided to end the whole thing bc we weren’t on the same page. that being said I don’t know the context of your friendship so I can’t make any insights. That’s totally up to you.

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Anonymous OP 1w

that all being said, situations like this really hurt and suck. It seems to me like you put effort into righting your wrongs, so it hurts even more. However, learning from it will make your next new friendship all that much stronger, and remember that you can’t control how other people feel about you. You just do the best you can. Wishing you the best and maybe one day they’ll come around🫶🫶🫶

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Anonymous #5 1w

thank you so much i really needed that

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