
19 almost 20 yr old sophomore in college here! My body count is around 5 or 6, most of them being meaningless hookups with dudes from dating apps plus one of my ex’s, a fwb thing I had with one of my guy friends, and my bf. Personally I don’t see a problem with someone having a high body count as long as you’re protecting yourself and getting tested. Like #1 said it’s your actions and how you treat ppl that defines you. Your body count doesn’t make you a bad person or any less worthy of respect
I’m where you are rn. Not so much for other people caring but I myself like just don’t want more. Literally mine is higher than I ever thought it’d be personally so idk. Guys aren’t even judged over this but literally like I’m definitely gonna try to stay around where I’m at. Also I’m so scared of desensitization but can’t say if its like that for girls too