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i will be mid crashout but if my friend is too i literally force composure to help them… today i was going through it so i texted to rant which was one friend making it about her and the rest ignoring me. im frustrated bc i just needed a friend
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Anonymous 3w

I’M THE SAME I can’t help but expose my mental health in the same breath as my bestie!! Something is srsly wrong

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Anonymous 3w

Like she’ll tell me her shit and i’ll just pile on my shit and interrupt her because it’s so much shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i was ranting about a situation with my mom and my friend cuts me off by being like oh speaking of moms i miss mine so much (she just went to college but im at home but move in soon) and she’s had a bad year mental health wise and her mom is very helpful to her… but she’s also really transparent about her mental state, so i went through a very similar situation but my mom wasn’t as supportive and didn’t care so I didn’t get proper treatment and not everyone knows about mine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it just annoyed me because I’ve always been there for all my friends who were involved and nobody seems to reciprocate it to me… it always gets turned to their situation which is 100% fine bc im here for them but at some point I need someone to be there for me yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

yeah it’s really tough…finding connections and navigating personal needs like wanting to have a relationship the lines get blurred and people are afraid to cross borders

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

awwwws yea i feel that. like you don’t even understand.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

it’s just making me realize I don’t really have anyone… my family assumes the worst from me so they don’t listen at all and my friends don’t see me as unwell ever so they don’t understand that I crash out too idk I don’t want to lose anyone so idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i’m here for you. i’m going to start to think myself into good health for u. especially because my life suddenly changed for the best recently.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

so that will make it easy peasy just give me some time!!

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