Anonymous #1 3d

She still wants to be friends with me, but idk right now? Idk if it worth it😭

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Anonymous OP 3d

Don’t do it. If you are even the slightest bit unsure don’t do it!! There’s circumstances where it’s fine for me my crush was bad but me and him worked through it together and he was understanding that I was coping through seeing him different, it still crashed and burned but that was for other reasons. But even so I truly think if you can avoid it or at least give yourself time and if you say in 6 months I think we could just be friends and truly mean that you know where to find them

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Anonymous #1 3d

You don’t think it would be weird if i waited 6 months to reach out! I just don’t want it to be to late if i change my mind

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Anonymous OP 3d

Also I’m a girl and she’s a girl! So it may be weirder for her idk

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Anonymous OP 3d

I’m not saying like tell her I’ll reach out one day, but you could just say “right now I need time. One day if you’re ok with it I may reach out, but as of right now I need time to figure out everything for myself” don’t overcomplicate it. Also I’m a guy and the scenario I mentioned he was a guy haha

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Anonymous #1 3d

I love that!!!, i don’t think I’m gonna reach out at all😭!

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Anonymous OP 3d

It’s been a week since the confession, and i just don’t want to speak to her. Like if she wanna reach out to me the that’s fine but I’m not gonna text her

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Anonymous #1 3d

Also was your crush straight???

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Anonymous OP 3d

That’s ok that’s a boundary you’re setting and even if it’s something the other person may not like they have to deal with it as you set this boundary and are staying firm on it. That’s what self love and care is about as well as protecting your peace

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Anonymous #1 3d

Thanks dude you’re the best!!

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Anonymous OP 3d

Nah just not into me

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