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Friend Advice 14w
I’ve always felt weird about my best friend dating cause when she gets into relationships she acts like a completely different person (like more chill softer voice, blinks weird) and starts being more argumentative w me? Is that weird or am I overbearing
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Anonymous 14w

This definitely a strange behavior, it’s normal for people to change some when they start seeing someone new but being argumentative is strange. There’s a chance she’s projecting for anger in the relationship at you or maybe she’s become a bit insecure since something the relationship and is lashing out. I think you should talk to her, this isn’t a sustainable friendship otherwise. You don’t deserve to deal with a person who’s hot and cold

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

That’s the thing tho she’s really been there for me but idk how I would even word it. Like I feel like you act different in front of guys and it makes me feel weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

And that different acting makes you more argumentative W me? Like you’ve never had an issue listening to the studies I think are cool but now it’s so untrue wtf? I sent the paper and everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I think that people can be happier and more confident around their partners and there’s nothing wrong with that but it shouldn’t be done at your expense. Is she no longer making efforts to connect with you? I know you said she’s being shitty but is her argumentative approach and change in personality the only things different or does it extend to her general treatment of you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Well I think that’s the only thing, she’s been hanging out more w different people because I was encouraging her to network bc her mom was complaining to me about her being selfish and lazy and that she doesn’t use her college money to its fullest. But I will say that has come at the expense of the time she spends w me

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