Yeah, I’m in a kind of similar situation. I have a friend who I used to be a lot closer to, who I thought cared about and trusted me just as much as I did them. Then, we went to the same college and I quickly discovered that they were NOWHERE near as close to me as I thought they were based on how they interacted with new friends. For years I had to keep setting my expectations of our closeness further and further back until now, where I think I’ve finally gotten a good estimate of how much-

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Gurl I get you I have this friend who I used to be bsfs with but now she has other friends who are what I would call “opportunity friends” she essentially uses them to go partying, etc. I’ve realized I don’t want these types of ppl in my life anymore! New years resolution: stop accepting their behaviors! Ik it’s easier said than done but it really upgrades your life!!

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