Friend Advice on Yik Yak | If you invite me out, obviously invite whoever else you want, but please tell me if someone else is coming. If I don’t know someone and I’m not prepared to talk to someone else, I don’t talk to them, which is awkward when you’re a group of three

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Friend Advice 1d

If you invite me out, obviously invite whoever else you want, but please tell me if someone else is coming. If I don’t know someone and I’m not prepared to talk to someone else, I don’t talk to them, which is awkward when you’re a group of three

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Anonymous 1d

or just be a normal person and socialize, no need to be so reserved

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Anonymous 1d

Totally valid take, it’s nice to have a heads up

Anonymous 1d

Valid takes 500

Anonymous 20h

Look I love meeting new ppl but if I think it’s the two of us and u pu with like 4 ppl I’ve never met I will not be emotionally prepared lmao- a quick “hey is it ok if a few of my friends join” goes a long way and I always say yes but like plssss lmk

Anonymous 1d

I love being surprised! I love meeting new people

Anonymous 11h

Ig I get what you mean but if the person is already there you shouldn’t throw a tantrum and just not talk to them like sometimes you have to be a grown up about stuff like this even if it’s inconvenient for you

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Anonymous 11h

One time someone was upset with me for bringing a friend they didn’t know to a crowded theme park (I gave them a weeks notice and I drove them separately and it was a group of like 10) 😭😭 ik that’s not what you mean just made me think of it

Anonymous 20h

As someone who tries to manage crippling social anxiety, I think it’s weird to expect people to behave in a certain way you prefer. It feels a little self centered in perspective

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Anonymous 4h

Threesome 🫣🫣🫣

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Anonymous 13h

if this shit happened to a man you wouldn’t see him crying and complaining but yall just too soft

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Anonymous 13h

Lmfao yall need to work on your social skills

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Anonymous 14h

No…you got invited be grateful

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Anonymous

#1 1d

I also want to know beforehand.

Anonymous

#2 1d

it’s still polite to give notice tho

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Anonymous

#3 1d

esp if it was only gonna be the 2 of u

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Anonymous

#2 1d

“Just be normal and socialize” bro doesn’t understand social anxiety, or any sort of disability that may include social anxiety Nor does he understand basic decency…

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah sure all that but give a heads up first

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Anonymous 23h

Are you this dense? Nobody is disagreeing with you yet you continue to defend ur claim. Does your brain not work at all?

Anonymous 21h

Even in a relationship, your partner can have other friends. AND it’s still courteous to notify the person you made a plan with that you’re changing the plan and bringing other people

Anonymous

#11 20h

Long story short wanna hang out? (I promise it’s not a surprise diddler party)

Anonymous

#11 14h

i think the self centered perspective is when you invite people without letting your friend know beforehand

Anonymous

#11 14h

The inconvenience of sending a text message is tiny compared to the inconvenience of being put in a social anxiety inducing situation

Anonymous

#16 13h

LMFAO all men do is whine and complain, he maybe just wouldn’t put it on yikyak

Anonymous

#7 13h

W cap😭😭😭

Anonymous

#2 12h

This doesn’t work for people who have social anxiety, especially if they’re going out with someone they deem safe and is easy to socialize with. It just makes the whole encounter awkward for everyone involved. No they don’t need to tell in advance but it’s courtesy, apparently you don’t have any.

Anonymous

#17 12h

have fun navigating life with that sentiment

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Anonymous

#2 12h

Imma just assume you’re dumb as fuck and can’t comprehend. No one’s disagreeing with you homeboy, you just wanna bark the loudest 🤣

Anonymous

#2 11h

It’s a mental disorder of course it makes life hard to navigate, that’s how mental disorders work💀

Anonymous

#2 10h

As an autistic person, I would really appreciate the heads up because it allows me to prepare myself and regulate my emotions so I can be more palatable to broader society. If I’m not able to prepare, I won’t be able to be the “normal person” everyone wants me to be. Hope this helps!

Anonymous

#19 9h

It’s not even about that tho purposefully throwing a tantrum tho? It’s like if you check the weather app and it says it’s gonna be sunny, but then go out and right then it starts pouring rain and thunder. It’s completely unexpected and very clearly dampens your mood when you would been perfectly fine if the weather app had said it was gonna rain. And yes you cover yourself with your computer bag, but you’re still wet from the rain. Does that make sense??

Anonymous

#5 9h

Mind u… before phones wth was social anxiety…. Right…. Right..,

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Anonymous

#12 9h

Are we trying to say hanging out with someone is smth you can’t complain about or else you’re not being grateful?

Anonymous

#5 9h

social anxiety my ass bro get over yourself, i’ve been depressed and have had severe anxiety all my life, that doesn’t mean im gonna curl up into a ball anytime i get into a social situation. That shit was made for snowballs who are anti social

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Anonymous

#20 9h

just be yourself bro do not change for any set group of people, you’ll find the most happiness if you just be yourself

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Anonymous

#23 8h

Being anti social is a form of social anxiety. it might be shocking to hear but just because you do not have social anxiety despite having other forms of anxiety, that does not mean that social anxiety does not exist. the world is so much bigger than our individual perception is capable of experiencing.

Anonymous

#8 7h

Nah many are disagreeing because that’s simply a bullshit thing to say “just be normal” that’s ableist as fuck btw

Anonymous

#22 7h

Before phones people were either called anti social or they hospitalized for shit like that And by shit like that I mean mental disabilities

Anonymous

#23 7h

Keep diggin your grave dude you sound ableist as fuck…and ignorant

Anonymous

#21 7h

Ignoring the person they brought along with them is quite literally throwing a tantrum like using your example if it does start raining you not gonna sit there all mad your gonna get up and keep on moving you still got places to be you can still hang out with the person you initial want to without being childish to the other person.

Anonymous

#5 4h

If it did they wouldn’t have kept commenting…