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how the fuck do i make friends?? do i just walk up to someone in the library? and then what… im good at small talk, but not good at keeping someone around
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Anonymous 9w

Yooo I feel. I’m late 20s. It’s so hard. Dude most people my age are married, long term relationships or have kids , and I don’t. I have friends at work but even when we’re done we go our own ways. It’s hard

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Anonymous 9w

Find one friend with a lot of friends and then rinse and repeat until you find your people

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Anonymous 9w

Kinda depends—library generally isn’t the ideal space unless your library separates quiet section from talking section, in which case sure approaching someone in the talking section is nbd Joining a club or getting involved in a project helps. Friendships are made when you see the same people again and again over extended periods

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Anonymous 9w

I made a friend by complaining about the weather to someone on the bus, you just have to literally talk to people and not gaf if they could think you’re weird bc most of the time they don’t

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Anonymous 9w

Maybe at your job? And yes places like the library- practice connecting with people with similar interests

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Anonymous 9w

Honestly I just yap, I work at a place that requires lots of human interaction and make friends through conversation with them :) another thing too tho is if ur in school make study groups, or if u have roommates (that are willing to do this) hang out with them outside of ur house lol. I’m still good friends with mine and we catch up from time to time!

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Anonymous 8w

Just walk up to someone in your class and have a child with. Now you have a permanent friend.

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Anonymous 9w

Practice on me

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Anonymous 9w

Fuuuuck I’m 22 and I felt this allll the way💀😢

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Anonymous 8w

i literally cannot make friends

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Anonymous 8w

Just complement them they always fall for it and just like u after that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Dm me

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