Friend Advice on Yik Yak | My “best friend” has been telling everyone that I’m faking my chronic illnesses. Telling people I “bailed” when I was urgently hospitalized was tough to hear. I don’t know what to do.

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Friend Advice 3w

My “best friend” has been telling everyone that I’m faking my chronic illnesses. Telling people I “bailed” when I was urgently hospitalized was tough to hear. I don’t know what to do.

Anonymous 3w

not your problem brah this person has revealed their true feelings towards/about you and seems like a shit friend just based off of this. is this a repeat offense on their part? like frequently invalidating you?

Anonymous 3w

The hard truth is that this person is not your friend, a real friend wouldn’t do that

Anonymous 3w

Take pictures of yourself next time you go to the hospital

Anonymous 3w

Either we aren’t getting enough information or you’re just the victim here, not much too it. It’s hard to tell your sick friend that it’s okay that you won’t be able to hang out so much. She probably missed you, then the sadness turned to resentment. She should’ve dissolved the friendship if she wasn’t okay with the terms changing

Anonymous

#1 3w

They take my inconsistency extremely personal. While we were friends before I got very sick, I am always clear that unfortunately I will be flakey sometimes with the people in my life. They talked about me so poorly to everyone at our school while I was in and out of the hospital last year. Including their father who asked me if my fatigue was real and if I was “fixed” because it annoyed his kid