Why is it so hard to find furry friends near me. People only care to talk if I am a woman or if I am just looking for sex. IM JUST TRYNA TALK ABOUT MUSIC AND GAMES
I feel like it’s only easy to meet furries that aren’t weird when you’re in like southern California or something 😭
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Anonymous10w
Maybe we’re close?
Also check if your college has a club, mines got a small one that’s nice
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Anonymous10w
I wish my school had a furry club. I can kinda see why they don’t but the group of furries on campus all have closed off meetups and gc’s. There’s no way to actually join unless you know someone in the group ig :(
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Anonymous#110w
SoCal, parts of Florida, and the entirety of Canada. Being in the Midwest doesn’t make it easy
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Anonymous#210w
All the clubs my college has to offer are either athletic or music related. I could make my own but I feel like I’d be trolled more than taken serious lol
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AnonymousOP10w
Yeah that happens during the big club day we have with all the clubs but after that it’s pretty left alone and safe
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AnonymousOP10w
So jealous of my CA and FL friends fr. I’m in Michigan so I feel you 😭 doesn’t seem like there’s a strong sense of community even in the big cities here, only ones I see are sex obsessed
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Anonymous#110w
I’m sort of next to Kansas City in Missouri, and even in the city you’ll find racist rednecks so chances are there isn’t many here either. Closest convention to me is in like Oklahoma also
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Anonymous#310w
What?? Why did they close those off?
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Anonymous#310w
Go meet one then! If you know it exists than you can definitely join somehow, I believe
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AnonymousOP10w
I’m guessing they’re more tight knit but they’re always posting their group on insta and stuff
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Anonymous#210w
Sadly I don’t really know WHO they are. They mostly post and in their partials or full suit and never really show their faces :/ :(
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Anonymous#310w
Maybe dm the insta then?
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Anonymous#310w
That sucks, I know furries that live around me but I have no way of knowing where they actually are, I just know they’re here. I know people enjoy being anonymous and secretive in this fandom but trying to make friends in this fandom makes it hard because of the anonymity
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Anonymous#210w
I could try yea I would feel so awkward doing so 😖
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AnonymousOP10w
Yea it truly sucks. I’ll go to our involvement fair next semester and see if there is an official club but during the last fair there wasn’t one listed in the pamphlet
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Anonymous#310w
Not at all people have to join somehow right? Maybe you could make a partial or full suit post of your own and see if they reach out first? Maybe tag them or the school or something
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Anonymous#210w
Truee. I was eyeballing some premade partials that look really cute last night but I’ve also been saving for other stuff as well so it’s a gamble
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Anonymous#110w
NorCal fur here but I lived in SoCal, it’s not even that easy there 😭