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Girl Talk 2w
is it possible to not be able to orgasm? i have tired with a partner and by myself and it’s just never happened for me 😭 i’m kind of scared but really embarrassed to talk ab it
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Anonymous 2w

i mean not everyone squirts if that’s what you’re asking

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Anonymous 2w

Bc of meds and other stressors this has happened to me for long periods before, and I also have met people who’ve experienced this in general — I do not think it’s abnormal, but I also don’t necessarily think it’s permanent! Some people I think just have specific needs to get there, and you’ll figure that out along the way

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Anonymous 2w

It could be certain medication that makes it harder to orgasm, or if you are only using hands instead of a vibrator/tongue. Don’t overthink it while doing the act, focus on the feeling. There is nothing to be embarrassed about 🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

You mention being scared. That might also be part of the issue. It took me a little bit to be comfortable with myself and my partner. Typically women don’t orgasm right away with a partner either so just in due time. I believe in you queen

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