Girl Talk on Yik Yak | Hot Take: You should only choose to have a baby if you are able to take care of it fully on your own. Too many people think having babies is easy because they have a “village” but people have their own lives and your child isn’t their responsibility.

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Girl Talk 20h

Hot Take: You should only choose to have a baby if you are able to take care of it fully on your own. Too many people think having babies is easy because they have a “village” but people have their own lives and your child isn’t their responsibility.

Anonymous 20h

Also- too many women having deadbeat baby daddies and then taking out their frustrations on their family and friends for not fulfilling the role of a father/partner.

Anonymous 20h

Is it good to have a village? Yes. Should you be fully dependent on them? No. Your baby is your decision and people have lives that don’t stop because you made a huge decision you are underprepared for.

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Anonymous 20h

and its so insane that this is actually a hot take 😭 if you cant fully support a child on ur own financially and emotionally, dont have that kid ✋😭

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Anonymous

hooters 20h

I think it’s only considered “hot” because certain individuals think having an opinion like this is eugenics Meanwhile even Michael Jackson said “if you can’t feed your baby (yeah yeah) then don’t have a baby (yeah yeah)”

Anonymous

amethyst_popping_bottles 20h

If you can’t afford a plan b to avoid having the mf why in DE FUCK would you think you can afford to HAVE IT😭😩🙏