
All depends, and it depends on a LOT of things I had sex with my bf at 18 and looking back at it, it wasn’t the best, but it wasn’t the worst. This past semester in college I started hooking up with a lab partner and GURL😐 IT WAS AMAZING 😭 He was super sweet but also assertive and I think we were just so compatible.
I dont know if you can actively search for a hookup My advice is to just go with the flow yk work/study, and when someone comes into your life get to know them first to make sure they’re cool, you guys can kiss or makeout and then discuss what you each want. Im realised with this oast guy Im more of a relationship person because I don’t like the possibility of sharing and because I want to hangout/connect with the person Im having sex with So if you’re like me then a hookup might not be it