
I say this 24/7. And let me add you and a man could be on the same level of attractiveness and society will deem him somehow more attractive than you just because he’s a man and, let’s be honest, most men are not attractive. Like TT proves this time and time again. A decently attractive man can post thirst traps and gain a following compared to a decently attractive woman. You deadass have to be drop dead gorgeous as a woman otherwise you’re immediately “mid” or “chopped”.
It’s not based on “nice” it’s more like “fun”. You figure you’re getting on being with the other person for the rest of your life and spending more time with them than anyone else for decades so… most of that time you won’t be doing physical intimacy, you best like hanging out with the person.