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orangepopcornn

 aita?? context: this is my ex-manager/ friend that i invited to my wedding. she has uses her mental health as reason for not showing up, usually to work. she texted me the morning of my wedding to tell me she couldn’t make it bc of mental health reasons
6 upvotes, 9 comments. Yik Yak image post by orangepopcornn in Girl Talk. "aita?? context: this is my ex-manager/ friend that i invited to my wedding. she has uses her mental health as reason for not showing up, usually to work. she texted me the morning of my wedding to tell me she couldn’t make it bc of mental health reasons"
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Anonymous 8w

Well I guess at least she didn’t fight you about it and accepted the blame, but it’s still kinda shitty on her part and you’re completely valid for being upset

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Anonymous 8w

i get like having sudden bursts of bad mental health days, so i hope it was that and not a “been feeling bad for a few days and didn’t feel like letting you know sooner” thing because it’s lowkey inconsiderate of her— you RSVPed and sometimes that can screw things up, and then for the other girl to not show up was super shitty. i’d be mad too

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Anonymous 8w

i don’t think you’re the asshole, you’re valid for being mad

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Anonymous 8w

Nah ur valid and im sorry this happened :(

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Anonymous 8w

not the asshole

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Anonymous 8w

thank you everyone for affirming me😍🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

yeah so they only knew each other out of everyone attending so they planned to go together so when my manager decided to not go then the other girl didn’t go either which she asked me first and i’m honestly not even mad at the second girl. but also like…. i’m not exaggerating when i say the ceremony was straight up four minutes long and it makes me feel like you don’t care about me and our friendship as much as i thought you did to put on a brave face for five minutes

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 8w

idk if you had a reception but if they couldn’t even stop by for a moment to show that they do care, they’re not a real friend. i’m sorry. i understand mental health, i get it but… you could’ve stopped for a moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

we did have a reception😔✋🏻

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