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my boyfriend doesn't want me wearing shorts that are part of my halloween costume cuz my butt is out. we had this same argument last year, am i wrong for wanting to wear what i want? i understand he feels uncomfortable but we are in college and everyone-
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Anonymous 14h

he says i shouldn't dress like that if im in a relationship but i don't understand the correlation and why being in a relationship means i have to dress more conservatively. he knew how i would dress before (mind you this costume isn't even that bad)

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Anonymous 14h

Its literally not his business and very concerning that he thinks he has the right to control your body and expression

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Anonymous 14h

dresses very showy for halloween. i just wish he would hype me up and compliment how i look not get mad and say im dressing "single"

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Anonymous 13h

if he doesn’t trust you enough to not cheat on you (because of micro shorts somehow) then that’s his issue tbh. his insecurity is not ur problem

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Anonymous 11h

“Am i wrong for wanting to wear what i want?” What would you tell another girl if she asked you this question?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Does he try and control other aspects of your life?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

no it's just this that he has a problem with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

which is why i understand like he doesn't complain or have issues with anything else but at the same time i don't want to feel like i need to dress to his standard for halloween

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Well even so its still highly concerning behavior that he feels entitled to decisions you make about your bodily autonomy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

*on him i mean. words are haed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Hard. yeah i’m going to bed. goodnight

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

thanks for all the responses girlies 🫶🏼 i'm just trying to figure out how to approach the conversation again now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Im here for u girl. I feel like theres not much of a conversation to have on these kinds of things, its your way or the highway

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