
Worst, more like just bullshit. situationships to me r less complicated cuz it’s easier for me to enforce boundaries or drop dudes, while it’s blurry when it comes to my friends because I care. Overall this friend of mine would literally tell me what to wear (I don’t listen), what we are doing (wouldn’t ask, just say that’s what we are doing),get genuinely mad if I couldn’t go out, get mad when I hang with other friends (which she does too), and was just too possessive for a friend
She also had a competition thing going on with me. Like anything I did, she’d have to do it too—or if I was dating, she’d want to know everything, I mean everything, and then she’d start dating guys and she’d always either (a) put me down, saying stuff like guys don’t cross my boundaries cuz I’m too masculine (???) or (b) that she’s just like me when it comes to dating which isn’t remotely true since we have completely different dating styles. Overall it’s dramatic and draining do not recommend